Posted by Tea Master Tall on 11.16.2012, 01:52 PM: So... I was wondering if I could get some help from you guys on tavern. I really like this girl, but she's a senior and I'm a freshman. It's about a 3 year age difference. We're pretty close friends, and I just feel like I can talk to her about anything, but she's going to be graduating soon. I want to try dating her when I'm older and stuff, thus making it less weird, but by then I don't know if it would even work out...
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Posted by Roarkiller on 11.16.2012, 08:38 PM: Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
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Posted by saviour2012 on 11.16.2012, 09:24 PM: I think most of the youngsters among us are getting matured as they are trying to get into relationship
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Posted by Kazegami on 11.16.2012, 09:40 PM:
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Posted by Calforsale on 11.16.2012, 10:51 PM:
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Posted by saviour2012 on 11.17.2012, 02:25 AM:
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Posted by husky51 on 11.17.2012, 03:21 AM: First of all, I would like to know what age you are talking about. High School? University? I believe that you are referring to the first, but I'm not sure.
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Posted by fenkashi on 11.17.2012, 06:08 AM:
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Posted by Saddletank on 11.17.2012, 09:23 AM: Tall, I support what Husky and Fen have said. You should at least express your feelings to her, or you could approach things on a more casual level and see if she'd like to meet up outside achool - go on a date. It need not be anything complicated or subtle - window shopping together in town is a fun activity with maybe a light lunch or just a coffee.
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Posted by arren18 on 11.17.2012, 11:14 AM: I think the age gap isn't really a big problem in itself, but if she's graduating soon that could be a bit tricky. I suggest that you try to tell her fairly soon, before she leaves school, so that she knows sooner rather than later. Then if she's interested you might manage to work something out, and if she isn't, well, at least you know. If you leave it until after she's left then I think it'll be even more difficult, even if she is interested.
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Posted by Tea Master Tall on 11.17.2012, 12:35 PM: @husky51 To clarify, it's a high school situation, I'm not that old yet, lol. P.S. What a coincidence!
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Posted by husky51 on 11.17.2012, 02:32 PM: I like Saddles suggestion about the 'out of school' scenario.
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Posted by saviour2012 on 11.17.2012, 03:09 PM: @Saddle , Arren and Tea Master
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Posted by Saddletank on 11.17.2012, 03:20 PM: Tall, meeting up with her outside of school in a group with other friends is not the same as you two being alone together, so I'd suggest that. Just hanging out in the same ganag is not what I'm talking about, but I think you know that.
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Posted by Tea Master Tall on 11.17.2012, 03:27 PM: Friend parties not included? I mean that's basically when I hang out with her apart from school. Like, once we all got together and watched some Ghibli movies at my house, and we already hang out outside of school when we can. But, should I try to do something just with her, is what I'm asking? Me not being able to drive kind of makes it hard to go on an actual date... So, I'm not sure what you mean.
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Posted by fenkashi on 11.17.2012, 04:25 PM: Oh that's frustrating =(
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Posted by Mush on 11.17.2012, 06:30 PM: @ TeaMasterTall
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Posted by Tea Master Tall on 11.18.2012, 02:11 AM: Thanks for all the advice Mush, I don't think you're being pessimistic. You're being realistic. |
Posted by Tea Master Tall on 11.19.2012, 01:46 AM: I don't think I screwed up completely... yet, lol. I didn't really feel like wasting a lot of time, so I just told her via fb message. She said she wanted to talk to me about it face to face sometime, so it's better than anything I expected. I guess, I'm feeling optimistic, even though I probably shouldn't expect an outcome in my favor. Thanks you guys. I'll tell you how things go. |
Posted by husky51 on 11.19.2012, 04:12 AM: Best of luck, my friend... |
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