Posted by hopexx5 on 02.06.2013, 09:23 PM: I have never had a girlfriend so i cant say I have any experience in this field, I'm a loner in that respect in more ways than one.
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Posted by Mush on 02.06.2013, 10:38 PM:
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Posted by saviour2012 on 02.07.2013, 04:58 AM: offtopic
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Posted by Nausicaa_Cat on 02.07.2013, 10:39 AM: Thank you Saviour, for elaborating on your point. You're correct in that there is a perpetuation of the idea that men are 'only after one thing' - it's a cliché - but I would disagree that it's correct. Some young men are uninterested in relationships, and are just after sex, but that's because of those guys own intimacy issues rather than because they're male. There are women who don't want to form commitment's either.
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Posted by Mush on 02.07.2013, 11:09 PM: saviour - check your PMs.
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Posted by Roarkiller on 02.08.2013, 01:27 PM: I can't even begin to explain how none of you are even on the same page on any of the points
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Posted by husky51 on 02.08.2013, 01:38 PM: Perhaps because we all have different experiences and viewpoints that sit behind our thoughts... |
Posted by Nausicaa_Cat on 02.08.2013, 04:12 PM:
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Posted by husky51 on 02.08.2013, 05:21 PM: and isn't it nice that we can be so different, but still remain friends with a love of Ghibli... |
Posted by Saddletank on 02.09.2013, 11:10 PM:
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Posted by saviour2012 on 02.10.2013, 09:11 AM: I think we need to get back on the point. Teamaster I am sorry if our debate faded your thread.
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Posted by Roarkiller on 02.11.2013, 01:27 AM:
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Posted by Tea Master Tall on 02.22.2013, 01:01 AM: Well, we broke up now. It's for the better that we separated. We just had completely different needs/expectations for the relationship and we ended up just criticizing each other for things we couldn't change... And your supposed to love someone for exactly who they are... So, yeah. I'm still attached, kind of trying and failing to get over her... But, although I'm gloomy right now, I know it was a better decision for the future. I mean... it could've been worse. We at least broke up in a friendly way, and now I have experience, I guess... |
Posted by husky51 on 02.22.2013, 04:11 AM: A love broken is hard to endure and is generally always remembered. For the relationship itself and possibly why if failed, if known...
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Posted by Roarkiller on 02.24.2013, 01:33 PM: I never had a girlfriend.
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Posted by Tea Master Tall on 03.09.2013, 03:57 PM: I'm not in love with her anymore... Once I started realizing it was basically her unrealistic thinking that the relationship wouldn't take work or effort that was the biggest problem which ultimately caused it to end. She didn't have any expectations of herself or I, and I realized that if she didn't then she never really wanted a romantic relationship in the first place. So, it kind of made me mad that even though she didn't want to work for it, she stayed with me for the whole time, until I finally couldn't stand it. So, yeah, we're still pretty good friends I guess... But, I'm over us as a couple, because it's kind of hard to ignore someone's imperfections when they are directly associated with having a relationship, and in a good relationship, you should be able to ignore, or at least deal with, the other person's imperfections. I couldn't. And she couldn't either, even though it wasn't my being "sensitive" that was really the problem, lol it was her not having any expectations... So, I'm glad it ended, only wish it had sooner. |
Posted by husky51 on 03.09.2013, 04:03 PM: ...and life goes on...
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Posted by fenkashi on 03.12.2013, 07:53 AM: Late, but sorry things didn't work Tea =(
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